I'm a happily married mum of two boys, aged 17 and 19, and as a family we moved to France eleven years ago. My husband works for a French company, I teach English to French people aged 6 - 60, and English reading and writing to the English-speaking children of the area. We are part of an English speaking church in Lyon. I love to shop for French vintage lace, fabric and household items, and to combine them with my British and global treasures in interesting ways.
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Reality Check
I am not a perfect mother or housewife. There is dog hair under the sofa and the boys eat with their elbows on the table, however much they're nagged. I just assume you'd rather see the pretty stuff!
Forget-me-nots from Niki's garden (Nostalgia at the Stonehouse)
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
Hello friends
I just wanted to thank you for all your kind thoughts, prayers, comments and emails, and to let you know that my lovely mum died peacefully today, around mid-day.
Oh, so sorry Floss. I had a really strong urge to pray for you yesterday (Tuesday), which of course I did, so I had a feeling it wouldn't be long. You continue in my thoughts and prayers.
Dear Floss, I am so sorry. I want to give you a big hug and hold your hand and get you to tell me stories about your mum. I am thinking of your Dad as well now, it must be terribly hard for him as well.
Oh Floss. I'm so very sorry for you all. I can't imagine how difficult it must be. If only we could all gather around and give you a huge hug. Know that you have us to support you when you need it. Lots of love to you and your family xxxxxx
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers still. I am glad that you were able to spend this time with her. I loved your note about singing to her and I know she heard you and was comforted. Be kind to yourself in this difficult time. Much love to you. x
Dear Floss, I know your faith will bring you peace but that you will still feel sad and a great loss. Hope that you will have all your family around you soon and can find comfort that your mum went so peacefully and that you had been able to visit. Betty xxx
Oh Floss, I am so sorry to hear that your Mum passed away, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your time with her must be very precious to you. Love Linda x
I am so so sorry for you and your families loss. My thoughts and prayers and with you now as always. If there is anything I can not I will. peace be with you all
Dear Floss, I am so sorry to hear about your mother. Your presence with her at the hospice must have meant so much to her. Bless you for being there to support her at this time. May she rest in peace.
You and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers. It is such a blessing that you were able to be with her and be right by her with your calming, loving spirit as she passed over to the arms of The LORD.
My heart aches for you and your family Floss and I cannot fully understand how you must feel. I know in some ways it must be a relief that her pain and suffering is over and I am so glad you were able to be with her and sing to her over these last few days.But that doesn't make the pain of loss any easier. It must be very hard for your Dad as well and I hold him as well as you all in my prayers.
Dear Floss, my heart goes out to you, I´m so sorry. She lived a full beautiful life, she was surrounded by love. She will live forever inside you - and she will always be your mum. My warmest thoughts for you and your family. Love.
Oh Floss, I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. You have been very lucky to spend lots of time with her over the last few months and I'm sure it has made her illness more bearable having you by her side. You have had some great times with her this year and always and when the pain goes away, those good times are all you will remember. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
So sorry to hear your news Floss. Having the love and prescence of you and your family will have helped your Mum in her passing. I lost my Mum last year so I can understand how you will be feeling now. It will be hard but I know happy memories will sustain you at this sad time. With love, Carol xx
I was so very sorry to hear of your very sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family. Time, I believe will help to ease some of the great pain you all must be suffering.
Dear Floss I'm so sorry for you. Such a sad time for you and the family. I'm sending you a big hug and remembering you in my prayers. Take care. Denise x
Hi Floss, I am so sorry for your loss, you just joined my blog so you don't really know me but I am sure we will get to know each other through blogging. God Bless. Jill
Floss, I am so sorry to hear your news and, like Bluebell, we don't know one another but please accept my heartfelt sympathy. Thank you so very much for taking the time to welcome me as a new blogger when so much else has been going on in your life.
Dearest Floss. I've only just caught up and I wept for you when I read the words no one wants to have to write. My prayers are with you and your family.
I have been following your blog for some months now. I was living in Carcassonne when I got that phone-call... my Dad to say "Come Home" - I left 2 days later and he died 2 weeks later. I am crying as I write this but I am so grateful to have had those 2 weeks with him (and my brothers). Your idea of writing your blog so your Mum could be part of your life in France was a brilliant one and I am glad you were able to be with your Mum at this time - this will be a solace in the months and years to come. I am now nearer the Med but still in the Aude and nearly every day see a bird or a flower or a sunrise and wish I could share it with my Dad.
Dearest Floss. I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. May the love and prayers of your friends and family give you the strength and courage to keep going at this desperately difficult time. With all our love, Ali, Zig, Caleb & Ethan xxxx
Floss - My heart is broken and knows your pain. I am extending my love and thoughts to you across the oceans. How fortunate we both were to spend time with our beloved Parents before they passed away! And for them to know that we were with them too. I know the pain is still so raw, but how blessed to have so many wonderful memories to cherish.. With warmest condolences, Kali xox
63 comments:
I'm so sorry. Glad to hear it was peaceful and she had her family with her. Take care.
Amanda x
Oh, so sorry Floss. I had a really strong urge to pray for you yesterday (Tuesday), which of course I did, so I had a feeling it wouldn't be long. You continue in my thoughts and prayers.
Dear Floss, I am so sorry. I want to give you a big hug and hold your hand and get you to tell me stories about your mum. I am thinking of your Dad as well now, it must be terribly hard for him as well.
So sorry to hear your Mum passed away - my thoughts and prayers are with you in the coming days. Take care.
Jane
I'm so sorry Floss but relieved that you were over here for your Mum. Thinking of you all.
My Sincere Sympathy to you and your Family, Floss, so very,very sorry. x
I am so very sorry that your Mum passed away. She is at peaceful rest.
Our thoughts and prayers are still with you.
Love Jane x
Oh Floss. I'm so very sorry for you all. I can't imagine how difficult it must be. If only we could all gather around and give you a huge hug. Know that you have us to support you when you need it. Lots of love to you and your family xxxxxx
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.
Joy
Floss & Family - very sorry to hear your sad news. Shall be thinking of you all xxxxxx
i am so so sorry to hear that Floss, my love and thoughts go out to you and your family x
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers still. I am glad that you were able to spend this time with her. I loved your note about singing to her and I know she heard you and was comforted. Be kind to yourself in this difficult time. Much love to you.
x
Dear Floss, I know your faith will bring you peace but that you will still feel sad and a great loss. Hope that you will have all your family around you soon and can find comfort that your mum went so peacefully and that you had been able to visit. Betty xxx
Oh Floss, I'm so sorry. Such sad news, but we're all thinking of you.
So sorry for your loss. Condolences to you and your family.
Ella xxx
I'm sorry for your loss - your heart must be aching. Praying for peace and comfort.
Oh Floss, I am so sorry to hear that your Mum passed away, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Your time with her must be very precious to you.
Love Linda x
Am so sorry to read your news. Thinking of you all. xx
Oh Floss. I am so very, very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you,
xxoo
I am so so sorry for you and your families loss. My thoughts and prayers and with you now as always. If there is anything I can not I will. peace be with you all
Love and hugs to you all XXXXX
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. (((Hugs)))
Dear Floss, I am so sorry to hear about your mother. Your presence with her at the hospice must have meant so much to her. Bless you for being there to support her at this time. May she rest in peace.
Dear Floss,
You and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers. It is such a blessing that you were able to be with her and be right by her with your calming, loving spirit as she passed over to the arms of The LORD.
I am so sorry to hear of her passing. Take care and know we are all keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Kit
I am just new to your site, and I see I've arrived at a sad time in your life.
I wish you strength and comfort as you celebrate your mom's life and mourn the loss of her presence in your life.
You are in my prayers and heart. (((Big hug)))
So sorry for your loss, thinking of you and your family and sending you all a big hug
xxx
I'm so sorry..... my thought and prayers go out to you and your family.
My condolences, Floss.
I am so sorry to hear your news but I know the Lord will keep you in his arms and take care of you and your family,with prayers sent with love x
My heart aches for you and your family Floss and I cannot fully understand how you must feel. I know in some ways it must be a relief that her pain and suffering is over and I am so glad you were able to be with her and sing to her over these last few days.But that doesn't make the pain of loss any easier. It must be very hard for your Dad as well and I hold him as well as you all in my prayers.
Dear Floss, my heart goes out to you, I´m so sorry. She lived a full beautiful life, she was surrounded by love. She will live forever inside you - and she will always be your mum.
My warmest thoughts for you and your family. Love.
Thinking of you & your family at this terrible time. xx
I'm so sorry to read this....thinking of you all.
Jayne
Oh Floss ~ I am so sorry to hear this sad news about your Mum. Thinking of you and your family and sending you lots of love ~ Jackie xx
As all the other bloggers say, I was really sorry to hear your sad news, but we are all thinking of you and your family.
Oh Floss, I am so sorry to hear about your Mum. You have been very lucky to spend lots of time with her over the last few months and I'm sure it has made her illness more bearable having you by her side. You have had some great times with her this year and always and when the pain goes away, those good times are all you will remember. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
Lots of love, Kat xxx
I was so sorry to hear the news of your Mum Floss, I am sure it must have been a great comfort to her to have you around...
So sorry to hear your news Floss. Having the love
and prescence of you and your family will have helped your Mum in her passing.
I lost my Mum last year so I can understand how you will be feeling now. It will be hard but I know happy memories will sustain you at this sad time.
With love, Carol xx
Thinking of you all.....
I'm so sorry to hear your news. Your mum would have taken great comfort having you there. x
Sympathy and hugs to you and your family,
Dawn
xx
Dear Floss, I am so sorry for your loss. My thought and prayers are with you and your family.xxx
You are in my prayers.
Lynn.x.
Oh Floss, I am so sorry to hear your news, I will keep you in my thoughts.
Kandi x
OH, I'm sorry for your loss. I will keep you and all your family in my prayers.
Blessing being sent for you Floss, and all those around you at this time.
Lx
Oh, Floss. Prayers and peace be heaped upon you.
Dear Floss,
I was so very sorry to hear of your very sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family. Time, I believe will help to ease some of the great pain you all must be suffering.
Sue
Dear Floss
I'm so sorry for you. Such a sad time for you and the family. I'm sending you a big hug and remembering you in my prayers. Take care.
Denise x
Love and prayers - blessed are those who mourn, for they SHALL be comforted
Angela and Bob x
My thoughts are with you in this difficult time. Hugs Ashley x
Dear Floss,
There is no more pain, only Heaven to greet her.
Wishing you all peace and comfort,
Love from Canada.
Hi Floss, I am so sorry for your loss, you just joined my blog so you don't really know me but I am sure we will get to know each other through blogging. God Bless.
Jill
Floss, I am so sorry to hear your news and, like Bluebell, we don't know one another but please accept my heartfelt sympathy. Thank you so very much for taking the time to welcome me as a new blogger when so much else has been going on in your life.
Dearest Floss. I've only just caught up and I wept for you when I read the words no one wants to have to write.
My prayers are with you and your family.
Oh Flos - my thoughts are with you and your family.
Sincere condolences, Floss.
As someone wrote to me when my Dad died:
"Do not be sad that she has gone
Only be glad she ever was"
Of course you'll be sad, but I hope that your memories of her will sustain you.
I have been following your blog for some months now.
I was living in Carcassonne when I got that phone-call... my Dad to say "Come Home" - I left 2 days later and he died 2 weeks later. I am crying as I write this but I am so grateful to have had those 2 weeks with him (and my brothers).
Your idea of writing your blog so your Mum could be part of your life in France was a brilliant one and I am glad you were able to be with your Mum at this time - this will be a solace in the months and years to come.
I am now nearer the Med but still in the Aude and nearly every day see a bird or a flower or a sunrise and wish I could share it with my Dad.
Dearest Floss. I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. May the love and prayers of your friends and family give you the strength and courage to keep going at this desperately difficult time. With all our love, Ali, Zig, Caleb & Ethan xxxx
I'm so sorry to read about your Mum. Take care of yourself and your family.
hugs
Twiggy x
Floss - My heart is broken and knows your pain. I am extending my love and thoughts to you across the oceans.
How fortunate we both were to spend time with our beloved Parents before they passed away! And for them to know that we were with them too.
I know the pain is still so raw, but how blessed to have so many wonderful memories to cherish..
With warmest condolences, Kali xox
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